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    Piaget perspective on peer relationships

    Believed that children were more spontaneous than they were with parents; lead to better development of social skills.

    Vygotsky perspective on peer relationships

    Children learn new skills, develop their cognitive capacities in peer interactions.

    Friend

    Formally defined as "peer with whom an individual has an intimate, reciprocated, and positive relationship"

    Actions characterized by reciprocities

    Who do children choose to be friends with?

    Tend to be friends with peers who are sociable, act prosocially.

    Similarity of interests and behaviors important, as is having a similar level of cognitive maturation.

    Similarities among friends

    Friends in childhood/adolescence more similar than nonfriends in academic motivation, self-perceptions of competence.

    Tend to share same levels of negative emotions

    Cultural differences in friendships

    Children in China who are unsociable have adjustment problems; there is a cultural emphasis on collectivism.

    In certain cultures like Cuban and Spain, children are more likely to rely on family than on peers for support

    However, children follow a remarkably similar pattern of development across all cultures

    Importance of wandering for friend-making

    Japan: kids free to wander, made many friends.

    Kenya: kids stay in yard, little opportunity to make friends.

    Proximity less important for making friends as kids get older.

    Who spends more time with peers?

    In many cultures, boys > girls

    Effect of traditional family values

    The greater the importance of traditional family values, the less peer acceptance is related to adolescents' life satisfaction.

    Trends in aggression

    Boys always more likely to engage in physical violence, not necessarily relational violence.

    Settings where kids spend time with friends

    School is the most common setting; 83% report spending time with close friends there.

    Extra-curriculars (45%), neighborhoods (42%) also notable.

    55% spent time with friends online.

    Other factors affecting making friends

    Similarity in age is important, as is gender.

    Girls tend to be friends with girls, boys with boys.

    Liking of other-gender peers increases over the course of childhood/into early adolescence.

    Cross-racial/ethnic friendships

    In general, less likely to be reciprocated.

    Having cross-ethnic friendships is associated with positive attitudes toward others in the future.

    Minority well-being in friend groups

    African-American, Asian-American youth in friend groups with only people from other racial groups are lower in emotional well-being.

    First friendships

    Children have friends as early as 2nd year of life; 12-18 month olds prefer certain children.

    Friendship: 24 months

    Have skills allowing for more complex social interactions

    When children can make/maintain friendships

    Ages 3 and 4; can also have best friends here.

    Pretend play

    Occurs more often among friends than peers, as children can expect their friends to play along.

    More pretend play leads to more prosocial behaviors in the future.

    Quarreling/hostility

    Preschool friends quarrel with one another as much or more than nonfriends do, express more hostility toward one another.

    More likely to resolve in direct ways and more likely to resume their interactions post-conflict.

    Friendships: age 5

    Pattern of friendship is sharped; can now take responsibility for conflict. Friendship more likely to be maintained.

    Friendships: age 6-8

    Friendships defined on the basis of activities and time, cost and reward.

    Increasingly define friendship in terms of characteristics as they grow older.

    When are children sensitive to the needs of others?

    Age 9

    Adolescent friendships

    Used as a context for self-exploration and working out personal problems.

    Friendships start to become more exclusive and are an increasingly important source of intimacy.

    Why does children's reasoning about friendships change over time?

    Likely due to qualitative changes in their ability to take on the perspective of others as they grow older.

    Social technologies

    Very commonly used; girls prefer texts, phone calls, and social media. Boys 12x more likely to use gaming sites to connect with friends.

    Online communication can increase friendships quality in existing friendships, foster self-disclosure

    How does electronic communication facilitate creation/maintenance of friendships?

    Greater anonymity; reduce social inhibitions

    De-emphasize physical appearance

    More control over interactions

    Find similar peers

    24/7 access

    Study with Dutch children

    More children used instant messaging -> more comfortable meeting new people

    Rich-get-richer hypothesis

    Youths who already have good social skills benefit from the internet to make friendships.

    Support for rich-get-richer hypothesis

    Adolescents who are not socially anxious use the internet for communication more than anxious adolescents.

    Social-compensation hypothesis

    Social media may be especially beneficial for lonely, depressed, and socially anxious adolescents.

    Support for social-compensation hypothesis

    Lonely and socially anxious youths prefer online communication and use it to make friends

    Cyberbullying

    7% of all adolescents reported being cyberbullied in past school year; 34% of adolescents at some point.

    Girls and LGBTQ youth are more cyberbullied than peers.

    More common in classrooms where children are accepting of bullying.

    Cyberbullies/cybervictims

    Same as regular bullies/victims; cybervictims tend to be high in social anxiety, psychological distress, symptoms of depression.

    Why cyberbully?

    Contributes to an increase in the social status of the perpetrator,

    Cyberbullying interventions

    No trap! -> Italy; use peer educators.

    Spain: demonstrate to kids that only a small proportion of their peers cyberbully.

    Importance of friends

    Children with good friends experience less loneliness; chronic friendlessness associated with depression.

    Friends as a support system/buffer

    Support of friends helps greatly when going through transitions.

    Also serve as a buffer against unpleasant experiences: if a friend is present during a stressful situation, the child has less cortisol response and less loss of self-worth.

    Friends vs. parents

    Adolescents frequently report around age 16 that friends are more important confidantes and providers of support than their parents are.

    Friends fostering development

    Friendships foster development of social skills.

    Can discuss emotions with friends; express positive behaviors.

    Improve their ability to help their friends deal with social stressors.

    Importance of gossip

    Allows children to learn about peer norms.

    Likely to criticize and expand on other's ideas.

    Openness among friends

    Promotes cognitive skills, enhances performance on creative tasks.

    Friends are engaged in more constructive conversations and write better stories.

    Connection between friends and emotional/social health

    Having close friendships in elementary school has been linked to many positive outcomes.

    Children with best friends were viewed as more mature/competent, less aggressive, more socially prominent.

    Those who had a best friend at age 10 reported higher levels of self-esteem, fewer legal problems, and less psychopathology even 13 years later.

    Detrimental influences of friendship

    Children who have antisocial and aggressive friends tend to exhibit antisocial tendencies themselves

    Deviancy training

    Youths who are antisocial can model and reinforce aggression and deviance, making these behaviors seem acceptable.

    Adolescents who abuse alcohol/drugs tend to have friends who do the same.
    - Might intentionally choose friends interested in drinking, also cause them to engage in the behavior.

    At-risk youth

    Youth are at risk for substance abuse if they have friends who abuse substances and have uninvolved parents.

    Authoritative parents tend to shield youth from risk, while children of authoritarian parents are likely to use drugs if friends use them.

    Gender differences in friendship

    Develop as children grow older.

    Girls want closeness and dependency. More likely to worry about loneliness and more likely to have supportive friendships.

    More likely to get upset at unreliable friends and co-ruminate.

    Cliques

    Peer groups that children voluntarily form or join themselves.

    Cliques usually of the same sex and race, typically numbering between 3 and 10.

    Most children are part of a clique starting in middle childhood.

    Key feature of cliques

    Many similarities among members of a clique. Tend to be similar in aggressiveness, degree of academic motivation, shyness, attractiveness.

    Membership in a clique increases the likelihood that children will exhibit behaviors similar to those of other group members.

    Stability of cliques

    Relatively unstable; only 60% of 11-13 year olds maintained group ties over the school year.

    Allure of cliques

    Offer validation and provide a ready-made pool of peers for socializing.

    Peer status very important to children in middle childhood.

    Gender make-up of cliques

    Adolescence: cliques start to be less likely to be single sex.

    In 7th grade, 10% of cliques contain both boys/girls.

    Dyadic dating relationships become increasingly common.

    Importance of cliques over time

    Importance of belonging to a clique decreases in value in later adolescence; adolescents more autonomous, look towards individual relationships.

    Crowds

    Groups of people who have similar stereotyped reputations. Examples include jocks, freaks, etc.

    Crowd membership is often assigned by the peer group.

    Association with a crowd can enhance or hurt reputations.

    Crowds vs. self-esteem

    Youths in "high-status" groups tend to have higher self-esteem than do youths in less desirable crowds.

    In a Dutch study, adolescents' who identified with more nonconventional crowds had more problem behavior in the future.

    Gang

    Loosely organized group of adolescents or young adults who identify as a group and often engage in illegal activities.

    Biggest risk. Often commit violence and are victims of it themselves.

    Why join a gang?

    1. Protection
    2. Sense of belonging
    3. Often encourage illegal activity

    Children with poor relationships with their mothers are especially vulnerable to pressure from per group.

    Four major forms of bullying

    Physical, verbal, social, cyber

    Physical bullying

    Physically hurting or threatening to hurt someone

    Verbal bullying

    Insulting, teasing, harassing, or intimidating someone.

    Most common type of bullying!

    Social bullying

    Purposely excluding someone from conversations or activities, spreading rumors, withholding friendship.

    Cyberbullying definition

    Use of technology including texts, e-mails, websites, videos, embarrassing photos, and fake profiles to harass or upset another person.

    Prevalence of bullying

    6% high schoolers physically bullied, 11% cyberbullied, 19% social bullied, 31% verbal bullied.

    Why do people bully?

    In the moment: bully to seem powerful, gain status.

    Longer term reason: much more complex, influenced by individual, home, school, and societal factors.

    Characteristics of bullies

    Tend to be callous and antisocial, susceptible to peer pressure, and higher in social status.

    Low self-regulation related to both aggression and peer victimization.

    Characteristics of victims

    Less likely to be rejected by peers, feel depressed, do poorly in school.

    Can you be both a victim and bully?

    Yes; 20% of children. Tend to be aggressive and anxious.

    Victims to bullies

    Seen in Ontario, Canada study: 6% of children started off as victims, transitioned into being bullies.

    Had rates of anxiety and depression as high or higher than children who were just victims.

    Defense against bullies

    3/4 of victims report having a classmate who defends them against bullies. These children tend to have empathy for victims and confidence that they will be successful.

    Repeated victimization

    In the U.S., 1/5 kindergartners were repeatedly victimized.

    Repeated victimization likely increases child's aggression, withdrawal, depression, loneliness, and chance of hanging out with peers engaging in deviant behaviors.

    Romantic relationships with peers

    Tend to develop across early and middle adolescence.

    Progress from one relationship to one casual relationship to multiple casual relationships to a single more committed relationship.

    Over half of 15 year olds have dated someone.

    Choosing romantic partners

    Young adolescents choose romantic partners on the basis of status: style, peer approval, etc.

    Late adolescents: kindness, honesty, interpersonal skills are more important. Older adolescents are also are more likely to select romantic partners based on characteristics enhancing intimacy.

    Benefits of high-quality romantic relationships

    Associated with feelings of self-worth, general sense of competence.

    Can improve functioning in adolescents who are prone to depression, sadness, or aggression.

    Early dating/sexual activity

    Associated with increased rates of current/later problem behaviors like drinking and using drugs.

    Heterogeneity of relationships

    Quality of romantic relationships tend to mirror quality of other relationships.

    Poor relationships with parents/peers -> poor romantic relationships

    Sociometric status

    Peer acceptance; degree to which a child is liked or disliked by peers.

    Calculated by researchers nominating classmates whom they like most/least.

    Five groups in sociometric system

    Popular, rejected, neglected, average, controversial.

    Stability of sociometric stability

    Short periods: neglected/controversial likely to change; others stable.

    Longer periods: all likely to change with rejected childre having highest sociometric stabiliy.

    Traits granting status

    Physical appearance, athleticism, popularity of friends.

    Popular children

    Not necessarily most likeable; can be seen as influential without people wanting to be friends with them.

    Tend to exhibit both prosocial and aggressive behavior.

    Skilled at maintaining positive relationships with others.

    Popularity-aggression link

    Children who have high status in a group tend to be viewed as above average in aggression; use aggressiveness to obtain goals.

    Link observed as early as preschool.

    Relational aggression

    Social bullying behavior such as excluding others from the group, withholding friendship to inflict harm, and spreading rumors to ruin a peer's reputation.

    Aimed at damaging victim's peer relationships, particularly common among high-status children.

    Highly aggressive males may even have high peer acceptance!

    Rejected children

    Tend to differ from popular children in their social motives and in the way they process information related to social situations.

    More likely to be motivated by goals like "getting even" with others or "showing them up"

    Suggest fewer possibilities in social situations; Italian study suggests that their theory of mind is less developed than that of peers.

    Categories of rejected children

    Tend to be either overly aggressive or withdrawn

    Interventions for peer acceptance

    PATHS = Promoting Alternative Thinking Strategies. Children learn to identify emotional expressions; develop tools for self-regulation. Uses a stop-light system. Usually highly effective, especially for children with numerous problem behaviors and for children in disadvantaged schools.

    Aggressive-rejected children

    40-50% of rejected children; especially prone to hostile and threatening behavior, disruptive behavior, physical aggression, and delinquency.

    May also engage in relational aggression.

    At risk for increases in aggression and delinquent behaviors over time. Also at risk for symptoms of hyperactivity and ADHD.

    Disadvantages of rejection

    Children who were rejected in 3rd grade were higher than peers in behavior problems and depression/loneliness 3 and 7 years later.

    Rejected children more likely to have academic difficulties, with more absenteeism and lower GPAs.

    25-30% of rejected children drop out of school compared with 8% of other children.
    (May be bidirectional)

    Withdrawn-rejected children

    Make up 10-25% of rejected category. Tend to be socially withdrawn, often timid and socially anxious. May feel isolated, loneliness, and depressed.

    Being withdrawn in 5th grade predicts more withdrawn behavior through 8th grade.

    Withdrawn behavior vs. rejection

    Withdrawn behavior becomes a more reliable predictor of peer rejection over the course of childhood.

    Neglected children

    Withdrawn but relatively socially competent; tend to be both less sociable and less disruptive than average children.

    Likely to back away from peer interactions involving aggression. Not especially prone to peer rejection. Receive less support from peers but not particularly anxious about social interactions.

    Controversial children

    Liked by some, disliked by others. Tended to have characteristics of both popular and rejected children.

    Simultaneously aggressive, disruptive, prone to anger, cooperative, etc.

    Socially active with high status in the peer group, though they might be viewed as arrogant and snobbish.

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